Here?s what to do: when you see a beautiful woman (or beautiful women) you want to approach, look her in the eye, and smile slightly, using your ?naughty little boy smile.? Your intent is to make her smile back at you, while you continue to hold her gaze, and smile wider and ?naughtier.? Look for something unusual about her that few other guys would notice, and bring it to her attention. For example:

?You look like a well-conditioned athlete? what are you training for??

?Hmmm, that?s a most unusual tattoo? what made you decide to get that particular one??

?That?s a very professional looking business suit? what?s the occasion for dressing so professionally??

?You have a great energy, much like my friends in the martial arts? what kind of physical training do you do to have such a great energy? or is it just natural??

Or if all else fails, ?What are smiling about? remembering something that makes you grin??

The key is to notice something about her environment, and ask her an open ended question letting her know you?re sincerely curious about her. Don?t tell her, ?you?re a beautiful woman and I like beautiful women.? She?s heard that. You want to give her an opportunity to talk about herself, something few guys ever do. They?re trying to impress her, instead of shutting up, listening and letting her impress herself about you.

By doing this, you let her know you?re interested in her as a person (as opposed to a sweaty piece of meat), that you appreciate her beauty (and beautiful women) but you?re not intimidated or especially impressed by it, and that you need to hear more before you let her into your life. When you do this, you will stand out from the crowd that asks her the same questions over and over and over?and she?ll be more than happy to pick YOU up! (for more great tips, see www.womenapproachyou.com)

John Alanis is the author of ?Secrets of Natural Attraction: How to Get Desirable, Beautiful Women to Chase You.? He also publishes a daily ?politically incorrect attraction and dating tips? newsletter that reveals, in detail, how to get desirable, beautiful women to approach men for a date first, no matter your looks, age or income. You can subscribe to John?s daily secret by going to http://www.womenapproachyou.com Upon subscription, John immediately sends you five free ?how to get beautiful women to approach you!? reports.