4. Are Bars and Clubs the best places to search for a girlfriend?

A. Most of the girls questioned said that they had been on dates after being asked out in a bar or club. However, most preferred totally different venues when looking for their ideal mate. Libraries and bookshops rated highly (looking for a man with intelligence?), as did supermarkets, friend's parties and strangely, trendy video shops. Incidentally, the best information I've found on where you should look to find your ideal date is the 'Busy Person's Dating Guide'. There are some great ideas that most people would never even think of. The guide can be found at: http://www.dating-tips-online.com/bookoffer.htm

5. How do I know if a girl who's flirting with me is really interested?

A. The answer here seems to be ........ watch and wait.
A woman who is flirty by nature will usually be the same with every man she's in contact with. I'm told that generally we should assume she's interested in us but not get too dragged in until you've seen her in conversation with at least another couple of men. If she's just as touchy feely with them as she was with you then you've got your answer. Also, keep a look out for positive signs ........ If you're in a group situation, notice whether she makes eye contact with you more than anyone else and whether she goes out of her way to stand or sit near you. Above all ........ don't immediately think that she's just flirty with everyone ....... she may be really interested in YOU!!

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Chris Towland

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